As someone who has owned dogs for several decades, I’ve come to value a middle-of-the-road temperament based on my experience.

A dog that is too aloof may not show much interest in pleasing you, while a dog that is overly fearful can easily become aggressive. It may not be a popular opinion, but unless you are young and physically strong, I would advise against getting a strong dog like a pit bull. Breeds known for dominance require an experienced dog owner, not someone new to dog ownership.

Do your research on the breed you’re considering. Certain breeds like dachshunds, chihuahuas, and greyhounds can be unusually challenging to housebreak. Some of the bully breeds may have a tendency to nip more quickly than other breeds. There are also dogs that shed excessively, even if you diligently brush them, such as labs with their shorter hair. Hounds can pose a danger to other pets due to their strong prey drive. In my experience, female dogs tend to stay closer to home and make better watch dogs, while male dogs often exhibit more personality. However, there are exceptions within each breed.

With that being said, I have owned and loved all the breeds I mentioned and many others. It’s important to note that mistreated or starved dogs may have issues, but with enough love and patience, all breeds are capable of love and deserving of responsible owners. Irresponsible breeding has almost ruined some breeds, in my opinion, as dogs have been bred for specific traits. However, there are exceptions, as some breeds with bad reputations can be gentle giants, and some lovable breeds can exhibit aggression.

I once rescued a very frightened hound that was raised in a small cage above swamp water by its previous owner. Initially, I hoped it would become part of my family, and it gained weight rapidly in a loving environment. However, after a few months, it showed aggression towards my schnauzer and growled at young children. It would have been better suited in a hunting pack as a hound. This experience taught me the importance of closely monitoring such dogs.

In my opinion, it’s best to choose a friendly dog that isn’t excessively excitable. Take the time to look into the dog’s eyes, as they can reveal much about their temperament. If possible, spend some alone time with the dog before making a final decision. Clearly define what you want in a lifelong companion. And remember, if you don’t intend to make a lifelong commitment, please refrain from adopting. Dogs age and may develop disabilities. It takes a lot of hard work to care for them, and they deserve forever homes. They have hearts that can be broken, so seek advice from their caretakers and ask detailed questions.

Good luck on finding your new family member and get ready to have your life enriched by their presence.