First and foremost, it’s essential to understand that raising a puppy requires a significant time commitment, much like caring for a baby. They need regular feeding, playtime, walks, affection, and exercise. You’ll also have to address their “accidents” during the housebreaking process. I recommend using puppy training pads to help them understand where to go if you need to leave them alone for a couple of hours. Additionally, taking them outside every two to three hours will reduce the chances of them soiling the house. Remember to praise them every time they do their business, reinforcing positive behavior. You can even use specific commands like “go pee” or “go pooty” to help them understand.

Providing a crate for your puppy is important, whether it’s a Sky Kennel or a cage-type crate. You can drape a tablecloth or towel over it if you find it unattractive. Introduce your puppy to the crate gradually, allowing them to get comfortable with it while you’re nearby. Ensure there’s a blanket or towel inside so they have a soft surface to rest on. After meals or outdoor activities, place them in the crate when they have a full belly, and they will likely fall asleep quickly. However, keep them out of the crate when you can supervise them. If your puppy is eight weeks or older, you can begin teaching them commands like “sit,” which will be beneficial in the future.

Socialization is vital for your puppy, both with other dogs and humans. The routine mentioned above applies primarily to the first few weeks, as puppies mature rapidly and may exhibit new challenging behaviors. However, by around 18 months, they should be fully grown, although larger breeds may mature later than smaller ones.

It’s crucial to never resort to hitting your puppy as they won’t understand why they’re being punished. Similarly, rubbing their nose in accidents is ineffective. Instead, take them outside and give them the opportunity to finish eliminating. When they do their business outdoors, lavish them with praise. If you catch them engaging in unwanted behavior, gently grab them by the nape of their neck and shake them, emulating what their mother would do.

Dogs are pack animals, and you need to establish yourself as the alpha or the leader. They will love and accept you as such. Show them affection through belly scratches, back rubs, and even rubbing their ears if they enjoy it. Provide them with toys, being cautious with squeaky toys that they could potentially choke on if they remove the squeaker. Engage in playtime by throwing toys or playing tug with them. Offering a variety of toys to satisfy their chewing instincts can help prevent them from teething on furniture.

Similar to children, you’ll find yourself constantly teaching your puppy, whether intentionally or not. Unless you desire a bed partner, teach them to sleep in their crate. Engage in vigorous play before bedtime, and consider placing their crate in your bedroom so you can be nearby if they need you, saving you a trip to their crate. Eventually, they will view their crate as a safe haven where they can nap or have some alone time.

Schedule a visit to the vet shortly after bringing your puppy home. Establishing a relationship with the vet and their staff early on will be beneficial as your puppy grows. There may be times when you’re unsure if something requires a vet visit, and a simple phone call can often provide the answers you need.

If your dog shows dislike toward someone, trust their instincts. Dogs typically have reasons for their preferences and dislikes.

Before deciding to get a puppy, carefully consider your options. I strongly believe in adopting dogs from shelters or rescue groups. Choosing an adult dog means less work, and there are delightful dogs awaiting adoption at every facility. By adopting, you save two lives: the one you bring home and the one that now has space in the shelter. Over the past 30 years, I have adopted all my dogs from shelters or diverted them from the SPCA. They are aware that you’ve rescued them and will be tremendously grateful. It’s important to note that instant love connections may not always occur—bonding takes time.

Regardless of your choice, whether it’s a puppy or an adult dog, one piece of advice stands true: love them wholeheartedly. Look into their eyes with a warm smile. The longer they hold your gaze, the deeper their attachment to you will be. Good luck on your journey, and I wish you and your future dog a lifetime of happiness together.